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Parenting doesn’t come with a manual, but we’re here to help you navigate the nights with confidence and connection. From practical strategies to thought-provoking insights, our articles are designed to empower, reassure, and support you in overcoming exhaustion and building sustainable parenting practices.

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From Exhausted and Running on Empty to Confidently Getting the Sleep Your Family Needs to Truly Thrive.

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Introduction

November 21, 20243 min read

From Exhausted and Running on Empty to Confidently Getting the Sleep Your Family Needs to Truly Thrive.

Meet Your Parent Coach

Louise Jocelyn is passionate about supporting exhausted parents through the challenges of night-time parenting. With a trauma-informed, attachment-focused approach, Louise helps families uncover the root causes of exhaustion and develop sustainable strategies that align with their values and parenting instincts.

Her mission? To empower parents to navigate night wakes and other challenges with clarity, confidence, and compassion—transforming exhaustion into calm connection.

Whether it’s navigating night wakes, managing solo parenting, or balancing your own emotional well-being, Louise is here to support you every step of the way.

FAQS

Isn’t Sleep Developmental? Why Would I Need Support?

Yes, sleep is developmental, but your child’s sleep patterns often mirror the overall dynamics of your household, including stress, routines, and emotional connection. This support is about helping you navigate sleepless nights with clarity and calm. By understanding your own responses and implementing sustainable practices, you can create an environment where sleep improves naturally—for the whole family.

What's the Focus Parent Coaching?

Parent coaching isn’t about prescribing rigid routines or quick fixes for your child. It’s about helping you thrive, even during challenging moments like night wakes or tantrums. We focus on strategies for emotional regulation, co-regulation with your child, and sustainable daily habits that empower you to respond with confidence.

Why Focus on the Parent Instead of the Child?

Parents set the tone for the household. When you’re emotionally regulated and equipped with effective strategies, it creates a ripple effect. This isn’t about “fixing” your child’s sleep; it’s about giving you the tools to handle sleepless nights and challenging moments with calm and connection, which naturally supports better outcomes for the whole family.

Is This Sleep Training?

No, this isn’t sleep training. This approach recognizes that sleep training focuses on modifying a child’s behaviors, whereas we start with you—the parent. Together, we address the root causes of exhaustion and work to implement strategies that align with your family’s values and needs, creating a foundation for long-term wellbeing.

How Will This Help Me?

Through tailored guidance and compassionate support, you’ll gain tools to navigate sleepless nights and parenting challenges without feeling overwhelmed. The goal is to help you feel more confident, connected, and in control—even when things don’t go perfectly.